The 2-week rule sounds interesting. My brain immediately goes “BUT WHAT IF IT’S TOO LATE IN 2 WEEKS?!” – which probably shows how high my anxiety is! But I can see how it could filter out the everyday noise. Maybe worth trying to adapt. Thanks Michael.

Thanks Linda. Hearing it lessens even a bit gives me hope. Right now it feels like a 10/10 intensity most days. A low hum sounds manageable. How did you get it to lessen? Just time?

Wow, Christopher. Thanks for sharing the plan detail too. The waiting sounds rough, but having that clear “if positive, then X” path must help structure the anxiety somewhat. My fear of recurrence is high; part of me wants this test, part of me dreads another thing to worry about.

Your family likely sees your strength in just getting through this. They aren’t keeping score. Focus on your recovery – that’s the biggest contribution you can make to them right now. And 6 months isn’t that long for fatigue after major surgery. Mine lingered much longer (post-chemo too).

The initial phase is a blur of fear and information overload. Bring someone with you to appointments if possible - two sets of ears are better than one, especially when you’re in shock.