Hi everyone. It’s been about 6 months since my surgery (Stage 2 colon cancer, thankfully surgery only). Recovery feels slow – still dealing with significant fatigue some days and unpredictable bowel issues. My husband and teenage kids have been absolutely incredible, picking up all the slack with cooking, cleaning, everything. But I just feel consumed by guilt. I feel useless and like I’m just this burden they constantly have to manage. How do you shake this feeling? It’s really weighing me down.
Your family likely sees your strength in just getting through this. They aren’t keeping score. Focus on your recovery – that’s the biggest contribution you can make to them right now. And 6 months isn’t that long for fatigue after major surgery. Mine lingered much longer (post-chemo too).